In today’s society, many cross cultural relationships are springing up. This is inevitable! Some older people see these relationships as something not workable. And this mentality affects a stable couple. Their justification is drawn from the cultures that may be difficult to understand or adapt to. This short important checklist may determine if you are on the right path with your cross cultural relationship.
Wednesday, December 10, 2014
If you are preparing to marry someone who is not of the same culture with you; some of the minor cultural differences will not be a problem if you can be a little bit patient. If you will pay close attention, your relationship will even be stronger in the long run.
The following clues might help you in preparing for a cross cultural marriage.
Sunday, December 7, 2014
By Azuka Onwuka
This could be described as loneliness in marriage; trying to avoid each other!
The easiest time to prevent a divorce or an unhappy marriage is before marriage, not after. There is no gainsaying that love can have such a drunken effect on the about-to-wed that clear danger signals become unimportant to them, while hope becomes the only commodity. After all, is it not said that love conquers all? Great! But what type of love is meant there?
There are traits that some people cannot drop. It is like hoping that a right-handed spouse will one day become left-handed: a classical case of waiting for "Godot"!
If you are looking for a wife or a husband, please be wary of these groups of people.
Saturday, December 6, 2014
|What a good thing to know he is husband material!|
Today’s people fall for appearances. And sadly that may be the main reason for rising divorce statistics. We may be so captivated by good looks, clothing and the mode of dressing, sweet words and some fancy acquisition like cars that we completely sideline character traits of a person. Sometimes we are so charmed by the way someone looks, we don’t seem to care if that person is honest, self-disciplined and controlled, and considerate. Inner beauties can make a happy marriage that’s why you should focus on knowing the person inside than being swayed by the outside beauty. What do you look out for in husband material?
Thursday, December 4, 2014
|World of Love|
What happens after your wedding? Can marriage be exhausted with time? Maintaining romance in your marriage requires energy, devotion and being there for each other through bad and good times. Let’s examine three lighthouses to look out for.
Talk: Talking must be fought for and preserved in your relationship. Make sure it does not wane. This aspect of communication is very important. I mean small talk, chats-talking to each other. The man should be free to communicate what he has done or his feeling without fearing repercussions or that it might be misunderstood that he is blowing his trumpets. He can always count on her support and understanding. If you must be away for an important reason, make sure you hear each other’s voice every day.
Tuesday, December 2, 2014
Sure METHODS that will make him lead you to the altar soon! Don’t forget to share your testimony with me!
You have been with your man for a very long and come to believe that he is the right one for you. Your relationship had passed through ups and downs nevertheless, it’s doing well. Now you are thinking of both of you going to the next level but the man is dragging or seems to not yet ready. You are confused as what could be the reason of him not eager to upgrade your relationship status. Are there ways that can make him propose? Let’s see.
You can make it happen without looking like a desperate and pushy woman through the following methods: