The role of Intelligent and Emotional Quotients in relationship

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By Kingsley Paul

Stop shouting, hear each other and try to find out the truth

Research has shown that persons with high Emotional Intelligence or Quotient (EQ) possess higher Intelligence skills than those with high Intelligence Quotient (IQ). Emotional Intelligence is the ability to assess and keep your emotions in check than allow them rule you. Emotional Intelligent persons are in control of themselves with better self esteem as a result relate well with others. They are conscious of their emotions. They can be able to control their emotion excesses. Since they have good self esteem, they don’t need people all the time to validate their convictions. Attitudinal problems resulting to poor human relationship is a product of low EQ. 

Knowledge as a Key to Success in Relationship

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By Barr Godson Nwachukwu

Just take it honey, it's nothing to worry about

In relationship, as in anything else, knowledge is the key to success. Ignorance is dangerous. Lack of knowledge is the fundamental and most frequent cause of failed relationships. Many marriages fail or otherwise fall short of reaching their full potential because the couples never learn what marriage is really all about.

Recipe For A Happy Family

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By Esther Obazu-Ojeagbase

Pastor Mrs Esther Obazu-Ojeagbase

One’s desire to have financial freedom, live an honourable, glorious and peaceful life could be marred with trouble and distress if one fails to be on one’s guard all the time. We have the duty to control our feelings, actions and what we say. The home is very important. A well known American author, Taylor Caldwel, once said, “I would rather cook a meal for a man, bring his slippers and feel myself in the protection of his arm than have all citations and honours I have received worldwide.” This is applicable to men too. Without a home there is no true freedom, hope, joy, no expectations for tomorrow, and there is no contentment.

APPRECIATION IS A MARITAL TOOL

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By Chukwuneta Obiageli

Appreciate your partner no matter how little their effort to make you happy!

When I came across a friend’s ‘black berry’ status update some time back, I wasted no time in telling her that she had made my day with such moving tribute to her husband (whose birthday was on that day).The words may seem simple but the message is powerful and I quote ‘’ Happy birthday to the man, that makes my smile his priority –may you know no sorrow’’. This can only come from a woman that appreciates her blessing .I teach women this (appreciation) a lot. Go out of your way to appreciate your man’s efforts (no matter how little) towards your happiness. Any man you praise for the little favours he shows you -will double his efforts next time. It is most discouraging when someone begins to feel that whatever he does for you is like pouring water into a basket.

Things Women Do To Destroy Their Marriages.

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By Esther Obazu-Ojeagbase

Wives bear as much responsibility as husbands. We have the power to make our homes, or break our marriages and so it’s very important for a wife to control anger, guide her tongue and be prayerful.

How wives hurt their husbands

While both husband and wife should take responsibility for their parts in a marriage, below are ten mistakes common to women, which can completely destroy a marriage. When women exhibit the following behaviours, it can create a hostile environment, where no one feels safe or comfortable.

SOME MARRIED MEN ARE TICKING TIME BOMBS WAITING TO EXPLODE. GET SMART LADIES!

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By Jenny Chika Okafor

What!!! So you don't want the baby!

You meet him. He swears he is the Prince charming you have been waiting for but there is a catch: he is married with children but living apart under the same roof with his wife while waiting for their divorce to come through and most importantly for the sake of their beautiful children.