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Some see having sex with different people as
adventure and fun forgetting the dangers associated with it that can ruin one’s
life. Some believe it’s not that ordinary as it seems there is also the
spiritual aspect merging your spirit with the other creating another type of
bond. But yet you see people engage in casual sex like their daily regular
intake of water. The truth is that there are lots of benefits from abstinence.
Surely some can’t control their urge; they feel is having fun, experimenting and
what have you, actually there is a very unique category that chooses the life
style of abstinence because they were brought up through discipline or aware of the
benefits of not having sex until the appropriate time. Let’s look at what you
stand to gain from abstinence.
1. No issue of unplanned pregnancies. Really, abstinence is the only 100%
effective method of birth control. You can’t get pregnant without having sex. I
don’t think such miracle is obtainable in this sinful world for those who
believe in miracle. Let’s face it; the people who may engage in dirty-dirty
stuff are not the ones you would want as a father or mother to your children.
Deciding to become intimate with someone means acceptance of whatever
consequence, which could be a baby. I’m not saying that the baby part is bad,
but will you be ok he/she was part of the process especially when they are not really
interested. Are you emotionally and financially stable to carry on alone? It’s
the fact that being a parent means you will forever be tied to someone with
whom you both produced that baby; that one night stand or what you may have
seen as catching fun. I think having sex, love making and all that is involved
is worth doing with someone you trust not with your naked body alone which
obviously you have been doing, I mean trust to potentially be a parent to your
child and consequently be in your life for real and always. It just seems that
the best person to have sex with is a spouse or someone you really want to
spend the rest of your life with not just anybody.
