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Dating a married person can be heartbreaking and dangerous. Most married people involved in extra-marital affair may be having trouble at home or a similar situation.
Despite the reason, most of them will not leave their partner so easily for their illegitimate lover after having bonded for many years especially when children are in-between. There is a risk of intense pain associated with cheating with a married person if you are also married. Imagine being torn between two lovers.