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Thursday, November 20, 2014

WORDS THAT SHOULD BE DROPPED IN MARRIAGE... (2)


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By Chukwuneta Obiageli

Chukwuneta Obiageli


She is what the Lagos based tabloids call a SOCIETY WOMAN, the type that clichés like ‘most society shindigs are incomplete without her in attendance, rumoured to have dated WHO IS WHO IN NIGERIA’.

So this particular caption of her gist (on the front page of a tabloid) screamed ALL MY MARRIED FRIENDS WISH THEY WERE ME or something of that nature. I didn’t doubt that claim for one minute because I have since realised that a lot of the problems that arise in some marriages is as a result of people WISHING TO BE SOMEBODY ELSE …rather than making efforts to work on their REALITY.

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Signs it’s your soul mate


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Between soul mates, there must be a strong affinity and shared values with strong emotional bond. They seem to have unfinished business before. Soul mates relationship is an extraordinary mating of two souls.
There may be signs that you have met yours.  What could have been better anyway?
The signs:

Tuesday, November 18, 2014

WORDS THAT SHOULD BE DROPPED IN MARRIAGE...(1)


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By Chukwuneta Obiageli


I am not comfortable when the EQUAL RIGHTS sermon is brought into a relationship/marriage. The old fashioned girl in me sees such as a sermon for the WORK PLACE AND OTHER SOCIAL INTERACTIONS. Marriage is NOT ‘benefits’ to be divided into two equal parts but a COMMITMENT (by two individuals) to become ONE-in every sense of the word. Be careful how you use words that end up entrenching SELFISHNESS in your relationship/marriage.

I will rather preach FAIRNESS when it comes to RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGE. Personally, I would desire nothing more from one who sees me as he sees himself, treats me like he would treat himself, sees mine as his’ and his’ as mine. When ‘fairness’ is the bedrock of a marriage/relationship…’rights’ don’t matter. Who drags ‘rights’ with him/herself-anyway?

Friday, October 24, 2014

Get healed fully before getting involved in another relationship


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Are they really together?

One who has gotten out of a toxic relationship should count their blessings that he/she is no longer there. Now it’s the time to heal. You have a probability of getting better or full recovery. Sure, you will deal with all kinds of emotional turbulence on your journey to recovery mostly resulting from unconscious flash backs. Just relax, process through the journey probably with the help of a therapist, you will see yourself recover sooner than ever imagined.

Perhaps, you desire a new and healthy relationship. Probably the ended toxic relationship has robbed you of some pursuits in life. Getting involved in a toxic relationship drains energy and destroys its creative power as well.  To be sure you don’t derail from the process of recovery, avoid the following distractions.

Saturday, October 18, 2014

The Secrets that will keep you together when you are distance apart


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Long distance should not mean the end of your relationship. Your love affair can still be kept strong even with some distance between you. This time, your relationship might seem impossible from some perspectives, actually it requires loyalty and patience to be sustained.

Some factors can work against long distance relationship even with the most loyal and patient person. The truth is that it stands as much chance to survive like proximate relationship according to many studies.

Monday, October 13, 2014

WHAT TYPE OF WOMAN ARE YOU?


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By Pastor (Mrs) Dorcas Tegbe

  
Nagging wife


“Favour [is] deceitful, and beauty [is] vain: [but] a woman [that] feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.” (Proverbs 31:30) (KJV)

“Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price [is] far above rubies.” (Proverbs 31:10) (KJV)

Womanhood is such a wonderful and challenging experience. The woman was created by divine plan to fulfil a unique and divine purpose. It is to be noted that every woman, without exception is expected to live a life that is worthy of emulation.

CHARACTERISTICS OF A “STRANGE” WOMAN