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Monday, December 13, 2010

Reasons Behind Cheating in Relationships

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Is your husband spending less time at home? Is he always lying to you? Did your friends saw him with another woman? Are you wondering why he is cheating on you? There's a line that goes, "Men are cheats and liars". This is not true to all men but most of the men nowadays are. This is no surprise as there are many divorce cases where the root cause of the separation is the cheating of the husband.
If boyfriends can cheat than why can't husbands? They are all men after all and sometimes, one can almost say that it is probably their nature. But, it is not true because most of time, men cheat because they are not happy with their partners or they are receiving less affection. Men have needs and it has to be provided. Below are some reasons why many men have affairs and cheat behind their partner's back.

He is not Getting Affection:
Although men are from mars and they are seen as strong individuals, they will always need care from women. Their partners should always be there to support them and stay behind them in whatever they do. In relationships where the woman is always busy and rarely gives an effort to show her care and love to her man, the man will look for someone who can give him care and affection. Men are like little boys and there is always a time where all they want is to be cuddled in a woman's embrace. Not getting enough affection is one reason why men have affairs with other women.

Man has Needs :

It is the nature of man to have needs sexually and the woman has to provide it. There are relationships that fail because the man and woman no longer spend time in bed because of their busy life. No matter how much the husband loves his wife but his wife cannot give him his carnal needs, he will always look for it from someone else. Sex is important in every relationship and so men have affairs if they are not having any sex with their partners.

Misunderstanding in a relationship and Frequent Fights:

Who would want to be in a relationship where there's supposed to be love and care but instead, hate dominates? It is a woman's nature to be noisy and sometimes a nagger. Men will easily get tired in a relationship where their partners will always fight with them. Instead of getting love and care after a tiring day at work, all they get at home is noise and fight and so they will tend to go somewhere else and look for somebody who will not fight with him and understand him.

Women's lack of trust:

There are times when women are always accusing their men of things they never do and the woman don't hear out his explanations. No matter how much he tries to prove his innocence and honesty, if the woman never believes him, he will get tired. Thus, men have affairs because they are tired with all the blames and lack of trust from his partner so he might as well find someone who will trust him and accept him.

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