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Friday, January 7, 2011

Love Tips for Guys - How to Make Her Really Feel That Way About You

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Falling in love with a woman can either be one of the greatest things to happen to a guy or one of the worst things that could happen to him. If you end up falling for a woman and she feels the same way, then obviously that is great. However, if you fall for a woman and she does not end up feeling the same way about you, then that is one of the worst experiences that any guy can have to go through.
Here are some tips on how you can make her feel the same way about you:
1. She's not going to fall in love with you if you become obviously obsessed with her.
In a lot of situations of unrequited love, what usually happens is that the guy becomes obviously obsessed with a woman. He wants to be with her all of the time, he wants to talk to her as often as possible and he ends up smothering her with all of that attention. Look, even if you do feel like you want to be around her all of the time, you have to show some sense of being able to control that and not come off like Mr. Obsessive if you want her to feel the same way about you.
2. You have to be able to share experiences with her that other guys cannot.
Another thing that gets most guys into trouble is that they come off as being just plain old boring. That might be harsh, but it is the truth. You have to be able to give her something that no other guy can give and when you can do this, then you can make her fall hard for you. Share something with her that no one else can and you create a bond that cannot be broken plus you provide some excitement to her life.
3. Don't be afraid to combine love and sex.
Yes, they do go hand in hand. If all she feels is love for you with no sexual attraction you know what you have. Friendship. Really, really good friendship. This is what happens to a lot of guys that get that speech about how they are so nice and how she likes to hang out with them, but she just does not feel that way. They don't combine love and sex. They do go hand in hand and you have to turn her on if you want to be more than just a buddy.

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