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Thursday, February 17, 2011

How To Find True Love Without Getting Hurt

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Do you imagine yourself all alone when you get old? Do you dread that kind of imagination? Do you want that to happen to you in real life? It is a definite no. It is safe to say that no one wants to grow old alone. You notice that nearly all of your friends are headed to the altar and wear that white gown. You feel that you are being left behind. You are still single and can't find a man you want to spend with for the rest of your life. That's kind of miserable feeling. But you don't have to worry. You can find a guy who you will treasure for the rest of your life. Just like hunting, finding the perfect mate can be painstaking. You just need to know how. Here's how.
1. Get rid of your bad habit.
You need to be able to sell yourself. The best thing you need to do is to get rid of your bad habits. Talking out loud with your girlfriends is a big no-no. You might want to get the rid of the bad habit of biting your nails or yawning when you are talking with a male being. The change won't happen overnight. You can do the change day by day until it vanishes. Getting rid of those things will make you become a better person.
2. Say goodbye to all your insecurities, fears and inhibitions.
One of the major reasons why you are still single is because you are afraid. You have not released any emotional issues. You got hurt from the past relationships that you had and you seem to be scared of getting hurt again. It seems that you are still holding on to the hurtful things in the past. You need to move on. You need to identify the things that have been bothering you. You need to deal with it. You have to settle things.
3. Love yourself first before anyone else.
Just like the one written in the Bible, you can't give love if you don't have love. You need to learn to appreciate yourself. So how do you do that? You can take yourself out on a date. Eat pizza, chocolate, pasta and all the other dishes that you want. Make it a point to spend quality time for your own self. You can say good things about yourself. You could also list down the good qualities that you have. Also, get a makeover. You can cut your hair or go for a shopping spree.
4. Learn to forgive and let go of your Ex
You won't be able to let a man enter your heart if you still have feelings for your ex. You can accept their apology for the wrong things they have done. You need to have closure. It will help you remove all the emotional baggage.

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