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Saturday, March 26, 2011

Honesty Is The Best Policy When Trying To Find Your Soulmate

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The dating scene is quite a show. We get dressed up and prance around showing off the best of ourselves. But are we kind of wasting our time?
When you're looking for your Soulmate you're in a different kind of game. You're playing in the big leagues. And when the stakes are high and the competition is fierce you need a way to really up your game.
And I think that honesty may be the key ingredient to doing just that.
Well because when you're finally ready to meet "The One" you're looking for, a different kind of person. Someone that's special. An individual that loves you for all that's good about you. But someone who can accept and help you with everything that isn't so shiny as well.
And those parts of ourselves that we're not that proud of should be brought to light sooner rather than later. You have to remember that they're going to find out anyways. So why not be up front about it from the very beginning?
The German novelist and poet Johann Wolfgang von Goethe had this to say about honesty,"What is uttered from the heart alone, Will win the hearts of others to your own."
And when you're looking for your Soulmate you really want to lead with your heart. There needs to be an honest innocence that pours out from you.
That way you can have a level of certainty that the other person will respond in kind. That they'll show you the full truth of themselves as well.
Leading with honesty can be terrifying. Because we're sort of naked. Standing there for all to see. But that's really what you truly want once you get past the fear. When you push past that tiny voice that wants to protect you from being hurt you come in contact with the innate strength that dwells within each and every one of us.
That honest vulnerability works for you. Helping you weed out the frogs from the prince's. It clears the field so you can see clearly who's really out there and who's truly going to love you the way that you deserve to be loved.
 Why rush into a relationship just because it's convenient or because you're lonely. Stick to it and trust that there is a person out there for you. Someone who can love and accept you for who you are and what you're about.
So honesty is the best policy when you want to find true love. True love demands that of us. Rewarding the brave few that have the courage to face that challenge. Drawing into their lives people of a higher caliber. People who are ready for the same. Individuals that are strong enough to walk hand in hand with you through this journey we call life.
The journey can be hard at times. And during those hard times you want someone who's going to have the conviction to be committed to you and what life throws at you.
Be honest, be yourself.

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