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Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Sex Is Trust In Understanding Men

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Whether you're married to a man, dating one or looking to date one, you can never go past this one fact about sex: men love it. It's to do with the level of testosterone in our body, which is also responsible for us being more physical than emotional beings. I will talk about a key point to understanding men to do with sex that only 5% of women in the world know about. Perhaps you got a hint to what I'm talking about from the title of this article. What you're about to learn is extremely powerful. The reason that men love sex so much is beyond physicality.
1. Perspectives On Sex
So the common belief is that men like sex because we simply get physically aroused more than women do. That is true; I'm not going to deny that. However, if you're trying to land a guy who's in for a serious relationship, their version of sex is a lot different.
Guys who are in it for the long run might start off as being more physical, but what makes them really attracted to one girl is how she makes him feel beyond the ephemeral lust.
2. Emotions vs Physicality
It's safe to say that initially, we guys are more physical. However, if we're serious about a particular woman, our emotions get involved and there is a new "emotion" that comes into the equation that we crave for, particularly if we're interested in the woman: trust.
I know, I know. It seems very clich├ęd, but bear with me here. What men like about particular women that they're into is that the woman trusts them on a few different levels. What are these levels?
3. Reasons to trust
Women who trust the man enough to be comfortable around him with no clothes are attractive. There are some women who, even until now still haven't shown their man their "true" physical self with no makeup on.
There is another emotional reason that we guys crave trust so much and that is that they're basically viewing the trust as something extremely valuable that the woman gives to the man. If you've ever heard of "detached sex", then you would know that you can have sex and not have that trust there that really makes the sex meaningful.
If you want to get better at understanding men then understand that for us, sex isn't all about sex. For the men who are more interested in long-term relationships, sex is all about trust: trust in the form of being comfortable around the man and trust in giving their entirety to the man. We treasure it and truly treasure the woman who gives it to us.

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