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Friday, June 10, 2011

3 Sure-fire Ways to Test If He Is Truly Your Soulmate

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Are you wondering how you can tell if the man you're with is truly your soulmate? Here are 3 sure-fire ways to tell for sure:
First, let's make sure we agree on what a soulmate is, because if we don't agree on what a soulmate is, then my advice about how to tell if you're already with yours won't be very much help, will it?
 A soulmate is defined on 3 levels: emotional, physical, and spiritual. In other words, a soulmate is someone with whom you share deep feelings of love, contentment, and commitment; someone to whom you are physically attracted and with whom you are physically compatible; and someone with whom you are spiritually in tune and spiritually compatible.
With that definition in mind, here are the 3 tests:
First: ask yourself, "Am I truly, madly, deeply in love with this man? If I knew I could have any man I wanted, would I be content to stay with him? If the handsomest, richest, most eligible bachelor in the world offered to sweep me off my feet and give me everything I ever wanted, would I turn him down flat because of my commitment to this man?"
If you can honestly answer "Yes!" to those questions, you're halfway to passing the first test!
Now ask yourself, "Do I believe that this man is truly, madly, deeply in love with me? If I knew he could have any woman he wanted, do I believe he'd be content to stick with me? If the most beautiful woman in the world tried to take him away from me, am I confident that his commitment to our relationship would be strong enough that he'd turn her down?"
If you can honestly answer "Yes!" to those questions, congratulations! You've passed the first test!
Second: ask yourself, "Does he make me hot? When we're in the bedroom, do the sparks fly? Are we intimate often enough, and when we are, does it feel like we're truly making love, or does it feel like we're just having sex (regardless of how good the sex is)?"
If you're happy with the answers to those questions, then ask yourself if you believe you still make him hot, that he still feels the sparks flying, too, and if you believe he's satisfied with the frequency and intensity of your sex life.
If you're happy with the answers to all those questions, congratulations again! You've passed 2 out of 3 of our tests!
Third: ask yourself, "Do I feel comfortable talking about spiritual matters with this man? Do I feel as though I can share my spiritual beliefs openly and honestly with him, without fear of being judged or put down for those beliefs? Do I believe he's open and honest with me about his spiritual beliefs? And are our spiritual beliefs in alignment (or at least not totally at odds with each other)?"
If you can honestly answer "Yes!" to those questions, congratulations again! You've passed all 3 tests! Chances are excellent that you are already with your true soulmate.

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