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Thursday, June 23, 2011

Suspecting Your Wife of Cheating, 2 Important Signs to Look at For!

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Do you have that sinking feeling your wife might be cheating on you? If you do, you are certainly not alone. Infidelity statistics show that it is actually quite common these days, with both sexes putting a lot on the line for the sake of a fling. Infidelity is all over television and almost everyone has known someone who has been cheated on by their partner.
If you are a husband who thinks that your wife is cheating on you, there are a number of signs that you will want to be aware of. The following are two signs on to indicate how to know that your wife cheated.
 If you suspect your wife is cheating on you, just be sure to keep your eyes and ears open. Unfortunately for the cheaters, they often make mistakes and don't cover their tracks thoroughly. It's hard word to continually be hiding your new activities. Many cheaters get comfortable and slip up at one time or another. If you know what to look for, this is when you might be able to prove your wife cheating.
A wife becoming secretive where previously she was very open, can often point to an extramarital affair. For example, does your wife spend noticeably more time on the phone or the internet? If so, what is her reply when you ask her what she is doing? If you receive a curt "nothing," or "none of your business" response, something may be going on.
When talking on the phone does your wife quickly hang up the phone whenever you walk into a room? Does she shut off the computer or try to block your view of it? If so, your wife's secrecy may mean that she is trying to cover up an affair.
A Change in Affection
If you suddenly notice a decrease in the amount of affection your wife gives you, this could be a sign she is having an affair. If your love life was previously happy and healthy, your relationship was filled with fun, adventure, and great sex but all that has changed, it could point to infidelity. If your wife no longer compliments you as she did before or pulls away during a kiss, an affair may be under way. Some cheating women try to avoid close physical contact with their husbands in fear of letting their guilt show or simply because they would rather only be intimate with their lover.
If you do find out she is cheating on you, pick the right time to carefully approach the subject. Never confront your wife in front of your children. No matter how angry or hurt or shocked you are, do not get violent. Stay calm. Keep your voice at a reasonable level. As hard as it might be, calmly approaching the situation can better allow you and your wife to have an honest discussion. Bringing the affair out into the open will give the two of you the opportunity to address the problems in your marriage, and therefore, come up with a solution that will stop your wife from seeking affection outside of her relationship with you and your marriage becoming just another infidelity statistic

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