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Friday, September 9, 2011

Passion is The Key!!

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as your relationship begun to lose its "sizzle"? Do you feel like it is not what it used to be? Do you want more excitement in your relationship? Do you want to have a more vibrant and loving experience? There is a key that will help you unlock the door to the kind of relationship you dream of.
It is a fact of life that after a while many relationships start on a downward spiral and end up being dull and lifeless. Instead of enjoying each other and living exciting and fulfilling lives, the two parties involved, at the end of the day, just end up sharing the same house. There is no intimacy or enjoyment. Both have become complacent with each other and have come to believe that this is all their relationship can be.
Nothing can be further from the truth!
You can have the kind of relationship you dream of. Things do not have to remain the same. You can do little things every day to make your relationship great.
The Magic Key:
So what is the key to making this magic happen? In one word "Passion"!
Passion is the key that unlocks the door. Loving another person is not enough. Liking that person is not enough. Even when two people love each other with all their hearts, their relationship can still become stale and stagnant and end up going down the hill.
But passion adds fuel to the fires of love. It will keep your love burning bright with mystery and excitement. Even during tough times passion will help to sustain a relationship.
It keeps both partners in a constant state of desire for each other, wanting to be with each other, wanting to please each other, wanting to be wherever the other person is.
The infusion of passion can save a broken relationship and revive a dying one.
Here are some ways to put some passion back into your relationship.
Number One: Start paying closer attention to your mate. Learn what they like and dislike. Learn what their needs are and meet those needs. When your mate realizes that you care about what interests them, and that what is important to them is important to you, their whole attitude towards you will change.
Number Two: Learn to "listen deeply" when your mate is talking. This is an art and will take some practice, especially if you are not accustomed to doing it.
Learn to focus on what your partner is saying. Stop whatever you're doing and look them in the eyes when they are talking to let them know that they have your full attention. Try to hear what they are really saying. Listen with your heart, not just with your ears. Wait until they are finished speaking before you comment. Don't interrupt. Don't criticize or judge. Be compassionate and understanding in your comments. When you listen deeply to another person while looking into their eyes, it will help to create passion in your relationship on levels you can't imagine.
Doing just one of these two things on a consistent basis will help to create more passion in your relationship and speed you on your way to creating the kind of incredible relationship you desire.

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