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Sunday, September 11, 2011

Why a Woman May Not Fall in Love With You! Possible Reasons!

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s hurtful as it can be, sometimes no matter what you do and what you say, you just cannot make someone fall in love with you. It'd be nice if there were some secret stealth technique that you could use with 100 percent accuracy, but that is just not the case. If it were, I'd be laying along a resort area in the Mediterranean with Shakira right about now. All kidding aside, sometimes as a guy, you just have to deal with the fact that you cannot force a woman to love you. With that being the case, sometimes you have to deal with finding out that a woman just does not feel that way about you.
One of the best things that any guy can do, no matter how successful he wants to be with a woman, is to learn to embrace rejection once in a while and even enjoy the fact that you can learn from it. When you are comfortable enough with rejection to take a real candid look at why things play out the way that they do... you can learn a lot to make sure the next time out you do much better.
Here are some possible reasons for why a woman may not fall in love with you:
1) You just do not have enough in common to go all the way.
While opposites may spark the initial attraction, more often than not there has to be enough common ground to take things to the next level. You might be able to create enough interest by being very different to get her to date you for a while, but it may not be enough to really win her over to the point where she feels like she has fallen in love with you.
2) She feels like she does not have enough respect for you.
Respect is a big deal when it comes to relationship and a lot of the time if a woman does not feel enough respect towards a guy... it's not going to mature into any love. That is something that you do have some control over, however. If you want to make sure that you DO have her respect, make sure that you don't allow yourself to become a doormat or a pushover in the hopes that she will fall for you. Give her reasons to feel respect for you and she probably will.
3) She has her eyes on another guy.
This happens, and sometimes it has nothing to do with you. Not everyone, male or female is really "wired" to do the long term relationship thing and you just may have ended up with the kind of woman who keeps her eyes open and scoping for someone else. If this is the case, make sure that you do not take it too hard, as it probably has very little to do with whom YOU are and more to do with her and her own issues.

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