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Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Ways to Tell Him You Love Him

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They are only three words. Three little words at that. Yet, they can pack in so much power, so much meaning, that it can be hard to say them. You probably want to know that when you tell a man that you love him that he is going to say the same thing back to you. Not only that, but you don't want to take things too fast with him. How do you tell a guy that you love him?
One of the big keys about telling someone that you love them, if you want to get them to say those three words back to you and mean it, is timing. Until he really feels that way, you might want to be prepared for the fact that you can say that you love a man and not have him return the same sentiment. And that is true even when he really does have some strong feelings for you.
Here are some more tips to help you if you want to tell him that you love him:
1) Show it symbolically at first.
Symbolic expression can give you the best of both worlds when it comes to this subject. On the one hand, symbolism can be incredibly powerful and effective. On the other hand, due to its silent nature, it can be a safe way to put it out there without coming right out and saying it. So, how do you show him that you feel that way through symbolism? A thoughtful gesture, one that not just any woman will give can be a good way to do this.
2) Wait for when the moment is right for him.
As much as you may feel like you want to just get it out of your system and tell him the way that you feel, waiting for a moment that is right for him may be the best bet. When he is comfortable, when he feels like he can say anything that is the kind of situation where you can drop those three words and expect to hear it back. An example of waiting for the right moment for him would be to wait till the two of you are doing something that he is passionate about and using that as the time to tell him the way that you feel.
3) Do it NOW if you need to know.
One of the main reasons why a woman might want to tell a guy that she loves him is because she really wants to know where she stands in his eyes. If this is part of the motive behind your desire to express your emotions, then you may just want to do it now. You can wait around to tell him that you feel that way, but sometimes it is much better to forget about waiting and just do it in the present moment.

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