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Saturday, November 19, 2011

Tips to Finding Your Love

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rom a spiritual perspective we are one, whole, without the need for completeness. However, in our human experience we identify ourselves as separated bodies. The sense of desolation creates an underlying desire for unification with another. If that weren't enough, we perceive worldly benefits of being in a relationship such as family and companionship. Regardless of the motivation, romantic relationships can be rewarding. Here are 4 spiritual tips to help you find your love.
Be selfless. Don't seek out a relationship "to get something." If you're seeking a relationship to gain something may be materially it is destined for failure. A healthy relationship is one where two people are helping each other be the best people possible (with no strings attached.)
Be available.  The right person may be just in front of you, if you not available or making yourself not accessible, you might miss the opportunity of hooking up with the best person God destined for you. Once you intuitively identify the person, there is no need making things difficult to connect with the person. Just make yourself available and let God handles the rest.
Make it about them. When you meet a potential partner, rather than worry about what to say, not to say, seek to learn about the other person. Take interest in what is relevant to him or her. Ask lots of questions and probe areas that are of particular interest to them or that you share in common. People enjoy it when they are made to feel as if they matter. This feels good and gives good reason for them to want to see you again.
Transcend rejection. Your fear of rejection should not prevent you from making a move. Rejection is real, however it doesn't define you. You are not less of a person because someone is not attracted to you, it's never personal. If you like someone, find the courage to express a romantic interest. And if they're not interested, bless them well, move on.
Relationship presents the most intense opportunity for spiritual growth and self evolvement. Lifelong relationship makes the space for two people to share in an intimate love experience. If you find yourself with the desire to share in that experience I hope these tips guide you to that discovery.
We are spiritual beings having a human experience. Discover the peace and joy that's yours.

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