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Tuesday, November 22, 2011

True Love is What You Should Look For

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hat is true love to you? How important is it to you? Who can benefit from it? How many times have you been in love? Was it true? Do you know what true love is? Has anyone ever truly loved you? If someone did would you know what it is? When you were young and if you came from a loving family then you have some sort of idea of what it is all about.
You see love can take many forms. There can be love and there can be infatuation, and just plain lust. When you are dating someone if they say they love you, you must really take the time to think about what they are saying. What is it about me that they like? Do they really love me, or is it something else. Do you really care for your partner? Or, is it something else?
Sometimes people love others just for the things that they can do for them. Sometimes it can be someone whose persona projects a lot of power, in other words, someone that has a power, job and money. Others fall in love with someone that is good looking. Sometimes people fall in love because they are looking for someone that can fill a void in their life. Sometimes people just fall in love for all of the wrong reasons. All these things are superficial. Love is a true feeling for someone else. It comes from the heart. All of the superficial things to fall in love for, can fall apart at any time, and if you don't have true love you might have trouble staying together. You see, people can lose their job and power position. People that are good looking get old eventually, or something could happen to them that changes their good looks. What happens when that void in your life isn't needed to be filled anymore? You see, love has to come from the heart. True love never fades away.
Ever wonder what makes two older people stay together for a long, long time. Yes, you know the answer, true love.
When someone says "I love you", do you really think it's coming from their heart? When you say to someone "I love you", are you really saying it from your heart?
When contemplating marriage with that someone special you need to find out if it's true love, otherwise, it may not last. True blue love is what you should look for. Just something to think about today!

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