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Saturday, April 30, 2011

Win Your Man's Attention Fast and Keep Him Coming Back Again and Again

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There is something that is really familiar among a lot of women. They don't know how to get the attention of the man they want. The reason why this is familiar is because of the wrong information most of us got about men. The wrong information that most women get end up causing them so much pain and heartache in their love life.
I know you're wondering how to get your man's attention without seeming desperate or needy and I'm going to tell you the quickest way to do this. First, I need you to understand how guys operate when it comes to the feelings of attraction and why your man will pull further away from you.
Men are attracted to women for all sorts of reasons but there are specific reasons why your man might respond to you or withdraw.
Here's the real truth about men and attraction:
1. Men are creatures of play.
Whether it's watching sports or being active at the gym, men are driven to be active and are action oriented beings. So if you want to get a man's attention, it is more about learning the language of play and how to trigger your man emotionally.
2. Men want drama free interactions
The only time men think about getting dramatic is mostly when they have to get physical. Think about how much emotional drama women invest in their relationships. Think about whether you have been investing in a lot of worrying, frustration, overanalyzing, or assumptions about your man. All of this is drama. Most men just don't want to deal with a worrier and most will do just enough to keep a relationship afloat if a woman is drama free.
3. Getting his attention
In order to really set off an uncontrollable desire inside your man, you must understand the psychology of attraction. You have to get inside your man's mind. This doesn't really have to do with knowing what he's thinking since this is at best impossible. But you have to know what triggers men.

Friday, April 29, 2011

You Want to Please Your Man Better Than Any Other Woman? Adopt these 3 Sex Tips

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You and I both know that the best way to keep a man coming back for more is by giving him the best sex humanly possible. I'll give you 3 straightforward, no-nonsense sex tips for pleasing your man better than any other woman out there. They may sound strange at first, but if you apply them you'll see that they work like a charm. Don't believe me, try it for yourself.
1. Expand his sexual horizons with this "secret weapon."
Men want you to be submissive in bed. Really, it's that simple. You should take initiative in bed but don't try controlling everything. Let him lead you and let him "dominate" you in bed. Total submission is what most guys desire from you, but don't want to tell you. How do you do that?
Basically, treat him like a King in bed and let him do to you whatever he wishes to do to you. Deny your man nothing and give him everything. If you do that, you'll be able to please him better than any other woman out there. I mentioned a "secret weapon", there isn't just one - there are several.  You have to do things that other women don't do, this way you'll please him better than he has ever been pleased before, so he'll never want to let go of you. Make it your goal to ruin sex for any girl he might end up with in the future.
2. The right words at the right time can be magical.
Conquering a guy's penis is one thing, but conquering his mind is an entirely different thing. Any woman can learn the right "techniques" and moves to please a man's physical needs and that's OK, but if you really want to please him like no other woman, you have to conquer his mind. Here's where the right words come in. You have to stop being shy in bed and open up sexually. Men want you to be sexual. That includes saying the magic words that will make his brain cells explode from pleasure. "What should I say, when should I say it?" - I can already hear you ask.
It's not as important what you say as important it is how you say it. If you believe in what you say, anything you say will come across as sounding amazing. If you think you'll sound dumb - you will. If you are 100% sure of what you are saying it will sound great. Tell him how much you desire him, tell him how good it feels in you 
3. You can change the world with your mouth.
I know this sounds shallow, but it's the truth. I told you in the beginning - deny him nothing, give him everything.  Don't be one of those women. If you are intimidated by it or fear that you'll "mess up" I have one thing to tell you: grab your fears and destroy them.
Look your fears in the eyes and you'll discover that it's not that scary, you just need the right information to believe in yourself. Master the art of love making and you'll satisfy your man better than you can imagine, and you'll see instant results when your relationship improves as a result of your sex skills.
Apply these 3 sex tips and they alone will get your man to faint from the pleasure you'll give him. Believe me, it's worth the extra effort. The more you give him the more you'll get back. Be a pleaser and men will call you a "keeper!";)

Thursday, April 28, 2011

How to Keep Your Woman Happy

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Some of us have hard times keeping relationships. Here are several tips on how to keep your woman happy. These steps are pretty basic, all you need, is to follow these simple steps and you're off to building strong relationships.
1- You want to start off with making sure you're emotionally stable. Don't ever start a new relationship after you just broke up. Rebound relationships are not recommended. Make sure when you start a new relationship you're completely emotionally healthy and truly happy with yourself.
2- The key to a healthy relationship is being you. Being confident with yourself, attracts woman very much. Everyone is created uniquely. When you learn to accept and love yourself, you will start to attract and draw people to you. Who wants to be surrounded by someone who is always insecure? No one does. So always be yourself!
3- One of the most important keys to a relationship is communication. You will keep your woman happy when you genuinely listen to her and are sensitive towards her emotions. Women like to feel that you care about how they feel. We may not always agree about certain things but when you listen to your woman's opinion and value her thoughts, she will also listen to you as well.
4- Treat your woman as she is a fragile glass. Respecting your woman and loving her with kind words will draw your woman closer to you. Men like to feel honored and respected. In order to receive, give your all to your woman. What that means is to love more and expect less. Submission to one another and putting each other first before yourself will strengthen your relationship.
5- Cherish and appreciate your woman. Remind her of how beautiful she is and how much she means to you. Don't stop saying sweet things to your woman only in the beginning of your relationship but always. Everyday remind yourself about one positive thing to say to your woman and I promise it will bring her to smile.
6- Invest time in your relationship. Set a weekly date, movie night, dinner, or whatever it is you enjoy doing together. Spending quality time with one another allows you to draw closer to each other and create happy memories.
7- Don't ever bring up the past or assume because you've been hurt before it may happen again in your new relationship. Many of us have been hurt but learn to love and choose to love like you've never been hurt before.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Is Your Love Genuine?

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One of the most common expressions made in relationships is "I'm in love." In most cases, the people who make this comment misconstrue what genuine love is; either they do not understand what genuine love is or they misinterpret what they are feeling or experiencing as genuine love. So, what does it mean to be in love with someone?
In the Greek Language, three different words are used for love: erosphilia, and agape.
Eros. This is human. In this kind, one looks for some characteristic in the object of love that pleases him/her. It could be charm, charisma, beauty, wealth, talent, etc. However, if this person loses that characteristic, the love of the other party dies. 
Philia. This level of love is more of friendship. Unlike eros which considers "my" happiness only, philia seeks "our" happiness, where the relationship survives as long as each of the parties fulfills their part of the friendship. A relationship cannot survive unless love has grown to at least the philia level. However, where one party fails to contribute his/her share or where unusual stress is introduced (eg. financial crisis, serious illness), the relationship may collapse unless one of them has agape love.
Agape. This is the highest kind of love. It is God-given. One with agape love will not be pulled away from a relationship just because the partner is in financial crisis or is seriously ill. It is the kind of love that is able to confess in word and deed "for better for worse... in sickness and in health... for richer, for poorer... till death do us part." Nevertheless, to possess agape love doesn't mean that one won't possess a certain degree of eros and philia, but agape overshadows these two.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Sex Is Trust In Understanding Men

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Whether you're married to a man, dating one or looking to date one, you can never go past this one fact about sex: men love it. It's to do with the level of testosterone in our body, which is also responsible for us being more physical than emotional beings. I will talk about a key point to understanding men to do with sex that only 5% of women in the world know about. Perhaps you got a hint to what I'm talking about from the title of this article. What you're about to learn is extremely powerful. The reason that men love sex so much is beyond physicality.
1. Perspectives On Sex
So the common belief is that men like sex because we simply get physically aroused more than women do. That is true; I'm not going to deny that. However, if you're trying to land a guy who's in for a serious relationship, their version of sex is a lot different.
Guys who are in it for the long run might start off as being more physical, but what makes them really attracted to one girl is how she makes him feel beyond the ephemeral lust.
2. Emotions vs Physicality
It's safe to say that initially, we guys are more physical. However, if we're serious about a particular woman, our emotions get involved and there is a new "emotion" that comes into the equation that we crave for, particularly if we're interested in the woman: trust.
I know, I know. It seems very clich├ęd, but bear with me here. What men like about particular women that they're into is that the woman trusts them on a few different levels. What are these levels?
3. Reasons to trust
Women who trust the man enough to be comfortable around him with no clothes are attractive. There are some women who, even until now still haven't shown their man their "true" physical self with no makeup on.
There is another emotional reason that we guys crave trust so much and that is that they're basically viewing the trust as something extremely valuable that the woman gives to the man. If you've ever heard of "detached sex", then you would know that you can have sex and not have that trust there that really makes the sex meaningful.
If you want to get better at understanding men then understand that for us, sex isn't all about sex. For the men who are more interested in long-term relationships, sex is all about trust: trust in the form of being comfortable around the man and trust in giving their entirety to the man. We treasure it and truly treasure the woman who gives it to us.

Monday, April 25, 2011

You Can Achieve A Happy Marriage

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Some of the issues that disrupt a relationship can include a history of stereotyping or mistrust, blaming the other person for the difficulties that will and do arise, excluding or discounting the other's feelings when focusing on a task, having no clear and defined objectives as well as where roles and expectations of each person in the relationship are undefined or not defined clearly.
Relationships are often seen as fragile requiring huge effort to maintain. However, a relationship can also provide a safe haven for you to be and can be long lasting despite the potential pitfalls.
Creating a happy and lasting relationship can be achieved in several ways:
Society may be seen as a web of relationships, which requires all members to work and contribute their share in order to achieve a common goal. Having a relationship that is happy, where cooperation and respect are valued, simply makes the whole society work better.
This can only be achieved when all those involved work well together and for relationships it's no different.
Happy relationships are defined by you and your partner openly expressing your feelings and perspectives on all matters relevant to the relationship.
The benefit here is that when the they realize they are being listened to they are more likely to feel the importance given to them which frees the way for them, in turn, to be more open to what you have to say.
Understand first and only then act on each others feelings and perspective.
Another key to a happy relationship is respect. You show respect by listening to your partner and by trying sincerely to understand how they function. You can also show respect to each other by confirming that they are doing everything they can.
The opposite of respect is being too quick to form judgements based on unfounded facts and prejudices.
Respect is really the foundation for a great relationship. This also means respecting yourself as well as respecting the other.
And yet another key area in creating a happy relationship is to tackle the differences between you immediately.
Work towards a win-win solution for both parties.
This can be done when both of you acknowledge that the relationship is important. That each of you is willing to exert the time, effort and energy necessary to understand the each other's perspective and needs, and work at it until it is resolved.
Effectively listening and no pre-judging are important if you are to really understand each other.
Informal discussions from time to time are also beneficial for ongoing good will with each other. They bring out issues and concerns comfortably. You also feel more relaxed allowing you to think more clearly and maybe come up with some resolutions that you might not have been able to come up with when dealing emotionally with an issue in the heat of the moment.
Develop an atmosphere where each of you can express your feelings when needed.
When people fail to express whatever is on their mind or their feelings about an incident that has happened, it can get in the way of building an effective relationship.
Relationships are important to everyone, addressing issues and problems right away is a must to further improve your relationship and to creating the happy relationship that you want.