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Sunday, January 8, 2012

Attraction Factors

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hen singles decide to search for love, they then need to ask themselves: What are my attraction factors? Why would someone be interested in me?
Attraction factors can be defined as external and internal.
External factor is defined as your look and image you present. Remember that you only have one chance to make a first impression. Those first few seconds really do count. It is true, surprisingly; some singles want to find a new partner but don't prepare to make themselves, more attractive. Well, dating is a competitive place. How are you going to attract potential dates if you neglect your image?
Creating your own individual style in clothes, Making your hair style that will make you look younger and sparkle, looking neat to give you a radiant look; all of these things will make you feel good about yourself and create inspiring energy to grab the opposite sex's attention. Imagine when you are going to buy a new car or a house? How important to you is cleanliness, good quality and other important details in the selection process. So the image you present is crucial in the attraction stakes.
In addition, external attraction factors also include your manners, your voice tone, behaviour and communication and social skills as well.
Other factors are internal. These are your personality traits that play an even more important role in attraction. Ask yourself:
*What can I offer to that desirable man or woman that he or she doesn't have now?
*What do I have that will make a relationship amazing?
*What parts of my personality and character are beneficial for a romantic relationship?
*What distinguish me from other individuals for somebody to prefer me?
*What am I prepared to invest in a relationship? A relationship takes time, energy, flexibility, honesty and effort.
I would add to internal attraction factors in dating: self-esteem, confidence and financial intelligence. Because singles need to feel self-worthy in order to be capable of creating happiness with a new potential partner.
In conclusion, by making yourself a more attractive and happier person, you definitely will increase your chances to win somebody's heart if you do!

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