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Thursday, March 22, 2012

Guide to Finding a True Love

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nyone who has ever lost a partner, gotten divorced, or ended a relationship can attest that love can be one of life's greatest blessings. Valentine's Day can bring the painful reminder of what is missing in one's love life. This reminder can be very stressful and lonely. With loneliness, comes the feeling of being inadequate.
What is the secret of finding true love in life? People usually put a strong focus toward attracting the right partner in life, and they ignore the internal problems that prevent a kinship from developing.
The search should start from inside your soul. If you feel inadequate, and unloving of yourself, then you are not generating positive energy around yourself. The Law of Attraction states that you attract energy similar to what we feel deep inside. If you do not love yourself then it is impossible to attract a partner who will truly love you. In order to find the love you are seeking, you need to develop higher self-esteem and self-love. In order to achieve self-worth consider the following:
1. Start making a list of things that you like about yourself. You may begin with physical attributes such as your eyes, your face, or your hair. Eventually, add your personal and mental qualities. Perhaps you are caring and considerate or intelligent and creative. Rather than finding faults about yourself, focus on finding strengths. It won't take long before you see things about yourself that you love.
2. Bring happiness and joy in your life. This step is exceptionally important. If you worry too much, or feel heavily burdened, it is time to give yourself a break and bring joy back into your life. Find someone who can spend some happy moments with you. Your companion doesn't have to be your life partner. He or she can be a friend, co-worker, neighbour, or a family member. Have a good time when you are alone, too. The more you become truly happy inside, the opportunity to attract someone who will truly admire you becomes much more likely. Remember that happiness attracts happiness.
3. While practicing to become happy, use meditation as an aide. Meditation will assist in finding your inner state of grace. As you silence your busy mind, and listen to your own heartbeat, you become aware of your calm center. In this center you will find true love, joy, and peace.

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