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Friday, July 20, 2012

How to Delete Emotional Baggage of Past Infidelities

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Do you know that one of the major impediments to starting a new relationship is the emotional pain and vulnerability that lingers from the experience of past infidelities? Do you know this emotional baggage contributes to such things as fears of commitment, fears of intimacy, patterns of self sabotage while in a new relationship, feelings of insecurity, the tendency to control and/or do surveillance on one's new partner, feelings of jealousy and so on? Do you know all this is destructive to current/future relationship and only leads to future infidelities? Finally, do you know that now there is a way to permanently delete this negative emotional baggage and restore you to a whole, self confident, discerning, mature person who is able to have healthy successful relationship? Want to learn more?

If you were cheated on it may be obvious that your emotional wounds remain very much alive within you making you feel hesitant to go out into the world and trust someone again. You see, it's not so much that another betrayal will occur rather if and when it does it will "re-trigger", "re-evoke" and add to the old emotional pain of past infidelities so as to deepen and widen the wound.

If however the wound was no longer there an entirely different scenario would exist. In such a case one would feel strong, clear, resilient, excited, optimistic, discerning, self confident, worthy, and therefore able to make wise self respecting choice that would increase the chance of landing a successful, secure and healthy relationship.

If you read between the lines you will recognise that what is being said here is that individuals who are victimized by infidelities actually were not fully aware, discerning and present enough in the choices they made in the past and that's what made them vulnerable in the first place.

I know there is a tendency to want to blame the other person, and I do not in any way condone what they have done, but the problem and solution is actually deeper than that. Often one's ability to make discerning (or not) relationship choice is imprinted early in life through the kinds of relationships they had with others when they were children.

So what if one could delete this early negative emotional baggage along with the subsequent negative memories of the past infidelities that arise from them would that be possible? Absolutely!

Over a decade ago it was discovered that negative memories could be completely and permanently erased or deleted from the subconscious mind. This was accomplished with a simple yet profound process that almost anyone who can read and write can access and which can also be taught.

When the past negative memories of the kind mentioned above, are erased the person is progressively restored to their self confident, self assured, worthy, strong, resilient, present and discerning self again. This is what I refer to as the Authentic Self i.e. the person's natural (and normal) state of being prior to being imprinted with any life destroying negative emotional baggage from their life.

In this restored state, individuals are not only resilient and discerning they are also attractive and able to make new and good relationship choice leading to secure, healthy and successful relationship.

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