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Sunday, July 15, 2012

Steps to Follow

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Learning to get a man to commit to a relationship can be one of the most difficult and confusing tasks a woman can undertake. Men and women are completely different creatures, and one will never completely understand the other. But just by learning a few simple things, you can get your man to commit to your relationship and finally take the next step.

First, stop playing hard to get. If you think manipulation is the key to winning a man’s heart, you are in for a lifetime of heartache. Despite what you might read, a man wants to know that his woman will be loyal to him and will be at his side no matter what happens. He wants to know that she loves him and he doesn't want to have to worry about what she's doing at all times.

Next, every man feels that he has some kind of purpose or destiny, even though he may not know what it is yet. If he feels that someone is keeping him from reaching this purpose, he will develop negative feelings towards this person and begin to pull away from them. It is important to note that many times this happens subconsciously and the man has no idea why he feels this way. He simply follows his gut. So in order to get a man to commit to you and your relationship, support him in his decisions and help him reach his destiny!

Finally, a man wants to know that he can be loved for who he REALLY is. He wants to know that he can be himself and completely let his guard down around you. If you want to know the quickest way to not get a man to commit, just try to change him and watch how fast he runs for the hills. And when a woman nags a man about things he does or doesn't do, this is, in a sense, an attempt to change him. He can’t help that he forgets to hang up his towel or pick up his clothes sometimes. That is just the way his brain works. So stop all of the nagging and complaining about the little things he does that annoy you and let him know that it's OK to be who he is! This is the absolute quickest way to win a man’s complete devotion. Do everything possible to make him feel completely comfortable around you and you will achieve more than you ever thought possible.

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