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Friday, November 23, 2012

Ideas that Will Help You Enhance Your Relationship

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Genuine Lovers

Maintaining a healthy relationship is not the easiest thing to do. It requires a hard work. It might be a bit difficult for some individuals to keep up with their personal growth. When committing to a relationship you are in essence sharing yourself with someone, therefore it is expected that you would maintain the health of this important union for the success of the partnership. An example can be taken from starting a programme, at a time you lose motivation. You stop going. To keep the momentum going and the love flowing we are going to do some preventive maintenance so you don't lose your motivation. These ideas will keep your relationship stronger.

Create Memories. Relationship is not to be boring, engage in different memorable activities together and have some fun. Create great memories by taking up a new hobby, or travelling together. Most any activity you do together that you enjoy will produce positive memories. So do something that you both can enjoy and develop wonderful remembrances of the times. These memories will serve as calming balm when your relationship goes through trials as most relationships do. You can reflect back on the good times and they will sustain you while going through the rocky roads on your relationship journey. The times you share will be forever with you as your relationship grows.

Be Sensitive.  People who act rough, aggressive and abrasive don’t find it sweet. Some say they prefer a more overt personality, others say they like the conservative and timid type, and truth is we all want something in between. Be attentive to your partner when expressing yourself. Be mindful of your partner's perspective and opinion. Showing your sensitivity actually reflects how much you respect and care. Your tender nature with certain situations can boast the integrity of the relationship in the long run. And there is no doubt the kindness will be returned with kindness.

Forget. Bad memories always surface easily in a relationship. You have to make a great effort here to go against the wind. You are going to consciously forget the bad things and attempt to move forward without looking back. If you and your partner have discussed the issues and talked things through, don't keep looking back or keep track of the irrelevant issues that have a major setback on your relationship. Maintain focus on the positive and do not dwell on the bad.

Have Fun! Being with the one you love is supposed to be fun and fabulous. There is a great deal of excitement that goes along with finding the "one" to share your life with and making a commitment. Now it is obvious that every waking moment will not be joyous, but you should be reasonably happy to be with the one you chose. Don't be heavy and bring down yourself or your partner. Make it a habit to laugh and smile as often as possible. If you are genuinely not happy, then maybe it's time to re-evaluate your partnership.

Date. Go out on the town! Let go of the day's stress. Enjoy the company of your partner. Sometimes life gets us so caught up that we forget to take time for ourselves and often our relationship gets put on a back burner. Make plans for your date; put it on your planner and to-do-list. A lunch date would suffice in the middle of a busy week or a quiet dinner date at a restaurant can turn a blah day into a romantic delight. It doesn't matter the time or day, just be to do it.

Reminisce. Go back in time within the memories that you have created and pull out the best of the best. This is a time of nostalgia that should bring relaxation and memories of good times for you both. Take a moment now to recall some of your best times and ruminate over the rush of feelings you have. This is also something you can do when you are relaxing, and it is sure to put you in a good mood. As a thank you for those good memories and good times, pass on those positive feelings to your partner. Nostalgia relaxes!

Honesty. The truth holds no secrets. Allowing your partner to view your transparency will gain you respect. Honesty is something that is often requested and some couples never totally give or get it. This is something that you should strive for in your relationship. You will share more, trust more and inevitably love more. Maintaining honesty is the best policy, dishonesty is usually uncovered, besides it's not worth the pain and frustrations it can cause.

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