o you believe in love at first sight? Are you searching for some substantiation that it is possible? Would you like to fall in love at first sight? Or are you wondering whether you should tone down your emotions? Read on to find out what we think.
Yes, true love at first sight is possible. There are so many beautiful stories out there that depict just this fascinating phenomenon, of how their eyes met and they fell madly in love and got married and had kids. You have certainly read this story in steamy romance novels and seen it in movies. It has happened to real people as well.
You see someone and you just know they are "The One" and you are going to marry them. I have heard many men tell this story.
One has to know the difference between love and infatuation, though. Infatuation does not feel real, it is what you feel sitting in the audience of a rock show, imagining you are going to marry James Bond. Not happening anytime soon.
One has also to know the difference between physical attraction and true love. Yes, true love comes with beautiful chemistry. But if the man in question merely resembles your favourite star or he has some features you think are great like super flat abs, and this is causing a flutter, it is most likely not love that is creating that increased pulse.
You have to be really careful with all of this. Say you see someone and think you have fallen in love with him at first sight. You really need to stop at that very moment before launching off into wild fantasies later that night, and find out whether he is available. If he isn't, stop dead in your tracks and find a hobby. Really, just distract yourself. If this is, indeed, true love, it will happen when everyone is truly free. Otherwise, all you get is a big huge mess. And many hurt people.
Knowing the difference between these emotions and situations can be the hedge of protection you need around you. A good test to apply is, when it is true love and meant to be, there is serendipity, an aligning of all elements. A few glitches here and there, but love wins out!
If true love at first sight is what you desire, then imagine and wish with all your heart: if you can imagine it, you can have it.